
In communication, our bodies often say more than our mouths
ever can. Body movements and gestures can send signals about your attitude,
your emotional state, and your desire to control your environment. These
movements, however, don't have meaning until your culture teaches you
to interpret them.
For example, leaning forward and making direct eye contact
might convey that you are attentive and listening.
Leaning back in your chair and twidling your thumbs may tell the listener
that you are bored and don't care. Tapping your foot or biting your
nails could let on that you are nervous. And standing over someone while
speaking with them speaks about your desire to exert control over that
person.
Even the movements of your face and eyes have communication
significance. Facial expressions carry a great deal of universality.
After all, everyone, across the globe, understands a smile and a frown.
Gestures, on the other hand, can cause a great deal of
trouble from culture to culture. A hand signal you might think is okay
could be down right insulting to someone on the other side of the world.
For instance, the "O.K." sign in just that in America, but
in Arab cultures it is a sign of hostility. Many people use their index
fingers to point to
different
things, but in Asia using the index finger to point is considered very
rude. And the peace sign, if turned the wrong way, could spark a war
between you and someone in Australia.
Scholars say that we have about 700,000 body movements
that we use daily! Given the sheer volume it would be impossible to
figure out what every gesture or movement means in any country or culture.
However, it is incredibly important to understand the significance of
gestures and body movements in our everyday as well as extraordinary
conversations.