Gender... QUEER?

How exactly would you define my gender?

Not quite female. Not quite male.

I exert a great deal of effort to try and blur society's sense of gender. I feel that I cannot subscribe to any gender box - not female, not male. Accordingly, I do my best to eradicate the limitations brought on by the existence of gender boxes.I identify as "gender fluid," and find ways to alternate pronouns or to use no pronouns at all. I invite you to explore the nonsensical world of the binary gender system.

Here you'll find a list of definitions you'll need to make sense of all the gender-blur lingo.

The term "genderqueer" is a relatively new term in gender theory and identity, only becoming popular within the last couple of years. Basically when used as an identity, genderqueer means that person's gender is not contained within the traditional gender binary -- this means that they might identify as transgendered, transsexual, non-gendered, poly-gendered...the list is infinite. Genderqueer is to the male/female gender binary (or genderstraight) as being queer is to being straight -- the term queer encompasses anything that is outside the "norm." But, as should be remembered with all identities, it is up to the person to decide what it actually means, and the term genderqueer's definition is unique for every person who uses it to describe themselves. [genderqueers.com]

Things you can do to eradicate gender or multiply it exponentially:

1. Spend a day in drag
2. Write to organizations that call themselves "gay" and "lesbian" and ask them to change it to "queer."
3. Think twice before you ask people if their child is a boy or a girl
4. Have a conversation about the gender revolution with a friend while riding on public transportation - make sure you're overheard.
5. Join the transsexual menace.
6. Go to conferences like the Femme Gender Conference in San Fransisco.
7. Refer to everyone by the incorrect pronoun.
8. Challenge the binary gender paradigm over Thanksgiving dinner.
9. Read a good book on gender liberation.
10. Organize to get the diagnosis Gender Identity Disorder removed from the DSM IV
11. Write about your experiences with the evolution of your own gender identity.
12. Refuse to check off your sex when filling out forms.




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